Friday, January 30, 2015

Stephen and his Mom

In Portrait of the artist as a young man, Stephen evolves in many ways as he grows up. His mother represents the mold that he is breaking. I found her few appearances to be very telling of Stephen's character. Her first real involvement is at the dinner when the argument breaks out. She largely acts as the arbiter and tries to retain order. I believe this is one of the things Stephen internalizes and it definitely sets a precedence for he order-driven motives in the novel.
Later on, we get descriptions of how Mrs. Dedalus is the strict catholic that has hopes for Stephen to enter priest hood when she sends him to the boarding schools. We see this reinforced when she appears disappointed with his interest in college. This provides a perfect opportunity for Stephen to grow as a person beyond what his mother expects, expressing his individuality. By the time he refuses to go to church, he is far from the devoted boy from the beginning. Cranley points out how Stephen is now beyond acting under his mother's love, another symbol of independence. I think she is important, as both a static character and one of the only women exclusively portrayed realistically.

I do not envy Stephen's complete detachment from his mother, but I think it is a very significant detain.

Monday, January 19, 2015

Coming of Age is More than Just You

While the concept of coming of age is an inherently personal concept, much of our life is defined by our relationship with others. Therefore, I believe our social interactions can do a lot to display this process.
The first aspect of coming of age that often comes up in discussion is memory. We said in class that we do not see ourselves as coming of age at a certain time, but rather we view our coa process through a collection of memories. I have noticed that sharing memories with others whether they were there or not is very powerful for building one’s self image. Additionally, a meaningful way to view one’s past is through the context of friends  and experiences with those around you. Lastly, the another defining characteristic of coa is maturity, and this is most clearly expressed through relationships with others. These evolve over time from playful or submissive (to parents) to professional or romantic. This process is crucial to coa and requires others to be intimately involved in one’s development
Are there any other ways your coa is represented or shared with others? Or do you think this is a purely individual journey?